Who gives the first toast at a wedding?
Matthew Perez
Updated on May 14, 2026
This first toast is most often made by the parents (or father) of the bride and should combine both a toast to the happy couple and a welcome message to the guests. If you would like the parents of the groom to speak, they should do so following the parents of the bride.
What is the order of speeches at a wedding reception?
You can do whatever works for you with your wedding speeches, but the traditional order of wedding speeches is as follows: father of the bride, groom, best man and then other toasts. It's becoming increasingly popular for brides and maids of honour to make speeches too!Who all gives speeches at a wedding?
The Couple's Parents - could be anything from one to four speeches. The Couple's Closest Friends and/or Siblings - these might include Best Man, Maid of Honour, Groomsmen, Bridesmaids, Groomsmaids, Bridesmen, members of the wedding party or non-members. The Couple - speaking either together or separately.Who should be toasted at a wedding?
2 Groom. Thanks – Thank the wedding party: bridesmaids, groomsmen, ushers, pageboys, best man, mothers of the bride and the groom. Toast - "To the bridesmaids." Extras - During the thank yous, the groom will present gifts to each member of the bridal party on behalf of himself and his new bride.Do the parents of the groom give a toast?
Give a ToastTraditionally, there's a father of the groom speech, as well. You'll want to keep your toast short and sweet, but be sure to tell your son how much you love them, address their new spouse, thank everyone for coming to the wedding, and offer some parting wisdom or advice for the newlyweds.